eager beaver...
omg. never have i met a guy so keen in my life.
so, last friday, i met this guy when i met up with a few friends at a bar on the Upper East Side. He was a colleague of a friend's friend - and seemed like a pretty cool guy. So Doris and I invited he and another few friends to come out and party with us that night. It was a great night out with some pretty cool people - I had a lot of fun, dancing away, and that was it.
that night - we'd mentioned going to Paul Van Dyk the next week in Central Park. so, on sunday, he called up to let me know that he was interested in coming along with doris and i, so I ended up buying tickets for a bunch of us to go dancing again on Friday evening. I love paul van dyk, so i was pretty hyped about friday.
so he messages and calls me for the next few days - but the freakiness started on wednesday night, when he sends me a text message about how excited he was that he would see me in 36 hours and that he misses me! WTF!? i decide not to reply. then the next day, he's telling me not to drink so much. and then friday, he ASKS me if it's "OK" if he gets in at 5pm that day. i told him it didn't matter to me and to get in whenever he wants.
by now - no matter how excited i am about paul van dyk - i'm dreading the event. i call doris to warn her, and so that she will look out for me. she says it's cool and she knows what to do.
so we're all supposed to meet up for dinner before heading to the park - but then doris ditches me at the last second! so i had a quick bite at subway with arin instead. i updated her on my happenings, and she's laughing at me. but she can't come out with me though coz she's running low on cash and has a bunch of stuff to do. then he calls up asking where we're meeting up for dinner. i told him i'm already eating and almost done , and he mentions he's on the way up to the UES with a friend already. so i told him to head over to a bar close by and i'd head over after.
anyway - we meet up and everything seems to be pretty cool. we head over the park, dance.. and then he starts getting all touchy feely!!! i keep retracting, and moving away - but he doesn't seem to get it. but i don't want to make a scene in front of his friends - coz that's pretty mean.
so then when we get to the after-party, i had a serious talk with him. he tried to put his arms around me when i asked him why he put his arms around me. he replied saying that he liked me, at which point i told him i only let my boyfriend hold me like that. then he asked if he could be my boyfriend, and i chucked him a "huh!?" face before saying no. i then told him that whilst i was flattered that he felt that way, that i didn't like him at all - particularly considering we'd only met ONCE. then he started saying "Come-on, come-on" ... like - yeah, you know what? you've convinced me now!
he obviously still didn't get it - so then i started telling him i had issues to deal with. that i still loved my ex, and thinking of getting together. and he still didn't get it. by then, i gave up trying to be nice and decided to ignore him. so i just walked away and joined the rest of the group.
so he calls and calls and left voicemails and messages me on saturday and sunday. i ignore them all. then (just as i was about to write this blog), i checked my email - and he wrote me a love email!!! EWWWW...... i CANNOT believe he's stated he loves me after
1) we've only met twice
2) i've rejected him in every way possible.
*sigh* so bothersome. i feel like i'm in high school again or something.
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Update: Wednesday, August 23rd
Okay - so Monday night, Anita and I drafted a quick and short email back to the guy, pretty much reiterating how I had already told him I didn't like him, and how I don't think we could be friends anymore - and asked him to chill out.
the guy obviously isn't very quick - as he then replies stating that he'll chill out - but can we still be friends? *sigh* time to continue ignoring him...
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Update: Wednesday, September 6th
one of my friends, fay ray told me that i'm being too mean to the guy by not replying to him at all and not even trying to be friends. after all, i have already told him i didn't like him and he must understand that by now. it made sense to me at the time, so i kept it in mind...
early last week, the guy emailed a bunch of us to see who was interested in going to six flags. so a couple of days later, i decided to write back saying i couldn't make. it was literally just a one liner - no greeting, no sign-off. and as soon as i'd sent it, he started messaging me. i ignored it. so then he replied to my email. i ignored it as well.
that night, i went out with doris when she told me that apparently he'd left her friend a huge voicemail on how much he loves me, how he wasn't going to give up, and that he will continue trying...!
and we're back to square one.
i feel sad. sad that i have someone who feels so strongly for me - yet it just pushes me away even more. i just find it freaky.
so, last friday, i met this guy when i met up with a few friends at a bar on the Upper East Side. He was a colleague of a friend's friend - and seemed like a pretty cool guy. So Doris and I invited he and another few friends to come out and party with us that night. It was a great night out with some pretty cool people - I had a lot of fun, dancing away, and that was it.
that night - we'd mentioned going to Paul Van Dyk the next week in Central Park. so, on sunday, he called up to let me know that he was interested in coming along with doris and i, so I ended up buying tickets for a bunch of us to go dancing again on Friday evening. I love paul van dyk, so i was pretty hyped about friday.
so he messages and calls me for the next few days - but the freakiness started on wednesday night, when he sends me a text message about how excited he was that he would see me in 36 hours and that he misses me! WTF!? i decide not to reply. then the next day, he's telling me not to drink so much. and then friday, he ASKS me if it's "OK" if he gets in at 5pm that day. i told him it didn't matter to me and to get in whenever he wants.
by now - no matter how excited i am about paul van dyk - i'm dreading the event. i call doris to warn her, and so that she will look out for me. she says it's cool and she knows what to do.
so we're all supposed to meet up for dinner before heading to the park - but then doris ditches me at the last second! so i had a quick bite at subway with arin instead. i updated her on my happenings, and she's laughing at me. but she can't come out with me though coz she's running low on cash and has a bunch of stuff to do. then he calls up asking where we're meeting up for dinner. i told him i'm already eating and almost done , and he mentions he's on the way up to the UES with a friend already. so i told him to head over to a bar close by and i'd head over after.
anyway - we meet up and everything seems to be pretty cool. we head over the park, dance.. and then he starts getting all touchy feely!!! i keep retracting, and moving away - but he doesn't seem to get it. but i don't want to make a scene in front of his friends - coz that's pretty mean.
so then when we get to the after-party, i had a serious talk with him. he tried to put his arms around me when i asked him why he put his arms around me. he replied saying that he liked me, at which point i told him i only let my boyfriend hold me like that. then he asked if he could be my boyfriend, and i chucked him a "huh!?" face before saying no. i then told him that whilst i was flattered that he felt that way, that i didn't like him at all - particularly considering we'd only met ONCE. then he started saying "Come-on, come-on" ... like - yeah, you know what? you've convinced me now!
he obviously still didn't get it - so then i started telling him i had issues to deal with. that i still loved my ex, and thinking of getting together. and he still didn't get it. by then, i gave up trying to be nice and decided to ignore him. so i just walked away and joined the rest of the group.
so he calls and calls and left voicemails and messages me on saturday and sunday. i ignore them all. then (just as i was about to write this blog), i checked my email - and he wrote me a love email!!! EWWWW...... i CANNOT believe he's stated he loves me after
1) we've only met twice
2) i've rejected him in every way possible.
*sigh* so bothersome. i feel like i'm in high school again or something.
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Update: Wednesday, August 23rd
Okay - so Monday night, Anita and I drafted a quick and short email back to the guy, pretty much reiterating how I had already told him I didn't like him, and how I don't think we could be friends anymore - and asked him to chill out.
the guy obviously isn't very quick - as he then replies stating that he'll chill out - but can we still be friends? *sigh* time to continue ignoring him...
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Update: Wednesday, September 6th
one of my friends, fay ray told me that i'm being too mean to the guy by not replying to him at all and not even trying to be friends. after all, i have already told him i didn't like him and he must understand that by now. it made sense to me at the time, so i kept it in mind...
early last week, the guy emailed a bunch of us to see who was interested in going to six flags. so a couple of days later, i decided to write back saying i couldn't make. it was literally just a one liner - no greeting, no sign-off. and as soon as i'd sent it, he started messaging me. i ignored it. so then he replied to my email. i ignored it as well.
that night, i went out with doris when she told me that apparently he'd left her friend a huge voicemail on how much he loves me, how he wasn't going to give up, and that he will continue trying...!
and we're back to square one.
i feel sad. sad that i have someone who feels so strongly for me - yet it just pushes me away even more. i just find it freaky.
posted by c`kREtZ at 1:03 am
3 Comments:
hahhaaaa
come on, admit it - u love being chased! even if this one is a bit too much... u love it!
i guess u don't really like him then, huh? but if he's fun to hang with, and if u can control him with the touchy feely stuff - u can still meet up with him... right? heheeee
no no no... i love being chased by someone i'm interested in! and i think by now it's quite obvious that i can't control the situtation...! *sigh* please... where are all the normal people??
karen - don't listen to fay ray! he's a guy, he doesn't understand. even tho it's prolly PC to reply, sometimes, its just less stressful to ignore.
if you reply, its just opening another door for him. but i guess this only applies to the super keen. some guys, like the hungarian guy, are full of pride & can control the situation to really be just friends.
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